The classiest of Buffalo for your
out-of-town wedding guests

By Terri Parsell Hilmey

On your special day, it’s important that you enjoy yourself, but you’ll find it’s equally important to your cherished memories of the day that your guests all enjoy themselves as well. Ideally, you would like to show off the very best that our city has to offer, and send all of your loved ones home with a fine impression of Buffalo. It was important to me that my friends from all over the U.S. and the world (my matron of honor came over from her new home in London) understood and appreciated my decision to move back to my hometown after having lived in Boston for more than fifteen years (ever since college). I wanted them to see all of the culture and beauty that I see in Buffalo.

If you plan ahead a bit, your out-of-town guests will be saying nice things about Buffalo for years to come.

Where to stay
As far as accommodations go, the bride and her special out-of-town guests should stay at The Mansion on Delaware Avenue (which has been featured in Architectural Digest), where Hillary Clinton, Faith Hill, and Tim McGraw have all stayed when visiting our city. The rooms are beautiful, the common areas are dignified and comfortable at the same time, and the staff is friendly and welcoming. The Mansion will make special accommodations for you (they arranged a private room for a lovely hen party the night before my wedding), but you must reserve your rooms months ahead of time, because they only have twenty-eight guest rooms and suites, and they do book up, especially if you’re getting married in June—prime wedding season.

You should also reserve blocks of rooms at other downtown hotels, such as the Hampton Inn, Best Western on the Avenue, and the Holiday Inn on Delaware, for all the rest of your out-of-towners who wish to be a bit more frugal, but whom you would still like close to the action.

Exhibition space
A Buffalo gift basket for out-of-town guests.
Photo by Terri Parsell Hilmey.
Gift baskets
I created gift baskets for all of the special out-of-town guests staying with me at the Mansion. The front desk called me whenever one of my people arrived, and I dashed up to their room to let them know where I was and to give them a specially prepared basket of Buffalo-inspired memorabilia for them to take home with them. They loved the gesture, and it’s easy to do!

Every basket should contain:
Buffalo Spree (obviously)
• A cute, cuddly stuffed Buffalo
• Quaker Bonnet’s Wooden Nickels.
• Fowler’s “Truffaloes.”
• A copy of City of Light by Lauren Belfer—a great read, and an interesting glimpse into Buffalo’s illustrious past.
• A copy of the Junior League of Buffalo cookbook, Great Lake Effects: Buffalo Beyond Winter and Wings.
• Anchor Bar Sauce (so they’ll know what a wing is supposed to taste like).

For ideas on Buffalo-themed items, browse Definitely Buffalo in the Main Place Mall, the Buffalo Historical Society Gift Shop, Reed-Jenss, or the Quaker Bonnet. Ready-made “Buffalo Baskets” are available from buffalospree.com, madeinbuffalo.com, or quakerbonnet.com.

Short day trip amusements
Everyone will be asking you about Niagara Falls, so get it out of the way right away. Go to MapQuest or Yahoo!Maps, and prepare driving directions for everyone who would like to go for a quick drive the day before or after your wedding.

If, however, your guests aren’t comfortable driving the fifteen to twenty minutes it would take them to get to the Falls, there are plenty of things to recommend for them within walking distance or a short drive away. Show them how to get to Elmwood Avenue and set them free. The restaurants and shops, and the hustling, bustling atmosphere on Elmwood make it one of Buffalo’s shining spots. Remember also that the Albright-Knox Art Gallery is right at the end of the Elmwood strip. There is an amazing permanent collection, in addition to the many exhibitions that the Gallery offers, and the E. B. Green-designed building is a work of art all by itself. Remind your guests to look around as they’re driving up and down Elmwood and Delaware Avenues, as we are lucky enough to possess some of the country’s finest examples of late nineteenth-century architecture.

Another way to pamper your bridesmaids and your girlfriends is an excursion to the Excuria Salon in Williamsville for some TLC before the big day. You could probably use a little Swedish massage yourself, to quiet those last-minute jitters. Excuria will put a nice package together for you. Then, you can all treat yourselves to lunch at the historic Creekview Restaurant, just a few doors down.

A great wedding is the launchpad to a great marriage. Stay focused on being together and celebrating with your friends and family. With a little planning, your event will be joyous, fun and relaxed, and it will provide a wealth of memories for all of you.

Terri Parsell Hilmey is a freelance writer living in Amherst.


RECOMMENDED SIDEKICKS
Barbera—the name of both the grape and the wine—is pretty easy to understand. The wine is identified by a village name (Barbera d’Asti, Barbera d’Alba) and occasionally a vineyard name, but as in all things, the producer is of paramount importance. Easily drinkable when released, good examples—whether traditional or aged in French barrels—will age with considerable grace over a five-year horizon. Right now, the uncommonly rich 2003s dominate the marketplace. I’d avoid the weak 2002 but 2000 and 2001s are still good bets.

Great Barbera is almost sinfully easy to find. Expect to spend $10-$25 for the following delicious normale bottlings, most of which come from great Barolo and Barbaresco producers: Giacomo Conterno, Aldo Conterno, Enzo Boglietti, Bruno Giacosa, Bovio, Domenico Clerico, Paolo Scavino, Elio Altare, Vittorio Bera & Figli, La Spinetta, Vietti, Luciano Sandrone, Albino Rocca, Prunotto (Fiulot and Pian Romualdo bottlings), Elvio Cogno, Conterno Fantino, Cortese, Gianfranco Alessandria, Renato Corino, Moccagatta, Mauro Molino, Giorgio Pelissero, Riccardo Seghesio, Codero di Montezemolo, Elio Grasso, Brovia, Mauro Veglio.

The following world-class Barberas will set you back more than $50. While these are usually richer and classier than the above bottlings, whether they go better with tonight’s dinner is strictly up to you. Altare Vigna Larigi, Hastae Quorum, Franco Martinetti Sul Bric and Montruc, Braida di Giacomo Bologna Bigotta, Bricco dell’Uccellone and Ai Suma, Prunotto Costamiole, Coppo Pomorosso and Riserva della Familia, Voerzio ‘Pozzo dell’Annunziata.’

Prices top out at $300 per magnum for Roberto Voerzio’s Barbera Riserva Vigneto Pozzo dell’Annunziata; call me if you’re opening some.

Dolcetto is also both a grape and a wine, but selection is even easier than it is with Barbera because there’s no division between traditionalists and oakaholics.Though advocates insist that Dolcetti can age for up to five years, I’d steer clear of all but the 2003s and 2004s now in the market, which yield numerous sumptuous examples. Although it’s possible to spend up to $40 for these wines, there’s usually little reason to exceed $20.

My Dolcetto hit parade includes Luigi Pira, Bartolo Mascarello, Paolo Scavino, Bovio, Enrico e Marziano Abbona Abbona, Domenico Clerico, Brovia, Fratelli Pecchenino, Giacomo Conterno, Conterno Fantino, Luigi Einaudi, Roberto Voerzio, Elvio Cogno, Claudio Alario, Brovia, Albino Rocca, Bruno Giacosa, Brovia, Marcarini, Vietti, Prunotto, Giuseppe Mascarello, Aldo Conterno, Elio Grasso, Elio Altare, Vietti, Giorgio Pelissero.

Aligoté lovers also ought to stick with recent vintages, but Burgundy as a whole had a fabulous 2002, and these wines are still drinking well if properly stored. 2003 produced fatter, richer wines, and, while not as classic as the older vintage, can yield fine drinking from the right producers.

The gold standard in Aligote is Aubert de Villaine’s Aligote Bouzeron, imported by Kermit Lynch, which should set you back $15-$20. Other fine producers include Arnaud Ente, Pierre Morey, Dureuil-Janthial, Bruno Clavelier, Robert Jayer-Gilles, Coche-Dury, Remi Jobard, Alice et Olivier de Moor, and Domaine D’Auvenay.


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